For over 50 years, birth control pills have been pushed on women as the optimal method of contraception. The reliability of other methods of birth control has been downplayed and women have even been told that our periods are “bad” or “dangerous.” They are also told that going on The Pill as early as their teenage years, and staying on it except to have children, will prevent long term health problems.
In addition, birth control pills are widely prescribed as a convenient way to put the perimenopausal body and it’s symptoms on autopilot until it’s time to move on to conventional hormone therapy (HRT).
Like most OB/GYNs, I’ve prescribed my share of birth control pills, even though I’ve long argued that there are safer alternatives that are just as effective when used conscientiously. As long as you don’t mind putting your ovaries on “automatic pilot” and ignoring your fertility, there’s nothing that comes close to the pill for sheer convenience.
When To Use Birth Control Pills
I prefer to keep my hormones tuned into the cycle of the moon and the planets rather than the energy of the pharmaceutical companies. However, birth control pills can have positive benefits for some women and may even be indicated as the best options in certain cases.
Here are a few reasons why women choose to use birth control pills during perimenopause:
Regulating heavy periods. Birth control pills can help regulate heavy, irregular periods that are common during perimenopause. This can be a Godsend for women in the 40s and 50s who have busy schedules or who simply do not want to deal with the inconvenience.
Preventing Unplanned Pregnancy. Many women, including women during perimenopause, don’t have conscious dominion over their fertility. Birth control pills can be a good option women for these women who are unwilling or unable to use more natural means to prevent pregnancy.
Ease Fibroid Pain: All pelvic conditions tend to quiet down when the natural hormonal cycles are put to sleep by the steady flow of synthetic hormones. Birth control pills are a combination of synthetic estrogen and progestin. Birth control pills help smooth out estrogen dominance that can cause fibroids to grow or become otherwise symptomatic. It can also help with symptoms related to Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome ( PCOS) and Premenstrual Syndrome (PMS). But because birth control pills are synthetic, I only recommend them in these instances after natural approaches such as dietary changes or acupuncture have failed.
Alleviate Hormonal Imbalance. Taking low-dose birth control pills has been shown to alleviate some of the common symptoms women experience during perimenopause including hot flashes, night sweats, mood swings, breast tenderness, bloating and more.
Clear Up Midlife Acne. Birth control pills have long been used to help with teen acne. And oral contraceptives are also used to help with midlife acne during perimenopause when hormonal imbalance is the cause. Women with excess androgen (i.e. testosterone or DHEA levels that are too high) should choose a pill that has antiandrogenic effects. But note that the more antiandrogenic pills can have a negative effect on libido.
Birth Control Pills and Your Sex Life
As I have always advised, there are inherent risks with all drugs. And birth control pills are no different. All birth control pills consist of synthetic hormones that mask our natural hormonal rhythms along with the messages about our health that they convey. And like most magic bullets, The Pill definitely has its downsides.
Ironically, one very significant downside is the fact that the pill can lower your sex drive! And since perimenopause can also cause unwanted changes in sexual function—including decreased sexual activity and problems with orgasm—birth control pills can make matters worse.
Birth control pills are comprised of potent synthetic estrogens and progestins that diminish the levels of the pituitary hormones known as follicle stimulating hormones (FSH) and luteinizing hormone (LH). This results in the metabolic suppression of ovarian function, including both the suppression of ovulation and testosterone production!
In addition, birth control pills cause a marked increase in the production of sex hormone binding globulin (SHBG) in the liver. The higher the SHBG levels, the more hormones are “bound” and thus unavailable for biologic effects on tissues. Studies have shown SHBG levels to be 4 times higher in Pill users than in those who had never used The Pill. This means that although a woman taking birth control pills produces testosterone in her body, it’s unavailable for normal use such as stimulating her sex drive.
Even more worrisome is that SHBG levels can remain elevated in women for at least 6 months after they stop taking the pill. But no one knows exactly how long this effect lasts. Many researchers are concerned that prolonged exposure to synthetic hormones induces gene-imprinted and increased gene expression of SHBG in the liver in some women who have used The Pill.
Other Side Effects of Oral Contraceptives at Midlife
For women who use birth control pills to alleviate the symptoms they experience during perimenopause it can be difficult to know if and when they actually transition to menopause. This is because the sugar pill week causes withdrawal bleeding (similar to a period), and this can continue even after a woman has transitioned to menopause.
For these women it makes sense to get an FSH test or other menopause test when they are on a break from taking The Pill, and to work closely with a knowledgeable health care provider.
Of course there are other potentially serious “side effects” as well, including headaches, PMS, blood clots, breast cancer, heart attacks, and stroke.
My Advice for Women Using Birth Control Pills
For women who choose to take birth control pills during perimenopause or at any other time in their lives, I highly recommend taking measures to support your body and it’s natural processes.
Here are some of the ways all women can mitigate some of the negative effects of birth control pills:
- Take the lowest dose. Birth control pills have come a long way in the last 40-plus years. There are many different options at much lower doses than previous generations of oral contraceptive. Start with the lowest dose of the birth control and only use it for as long as necessary.
- Take a multivitamin and mineral supplement. Nutritional supplements can be a great way to support your body. While there is no magic bullet, I women take a high-quality, pharmaceutical-grade multivitamin and mineral combination rich in B vitamins. The hormones in the pill change a large number of metabolic functions in your body, including putting increased pressure on the liver to metabolize those synthetic hormones. When you take a good multivitamin/mineral regularly, you provide your body with the materials it needs to do its job well. Do your research and choose one that resonates with you. Try it for a month or so. You many need to add additional supplements or change it up from time to time.
- Limit sugar. Healthy habits go a long way toward achieving healthy hormone balance and less severe symptoms during perimenopause. I have had many women tell me that they know when they eat chocolate or drink a glass of red wine they experience hot flashes. I recommend limiting sugar in all forms, including white foods and alcohol.
- Eat a low glycemic diet. A nutrient-dense, low glycemic diet with adequate protein, healthy fats, and complex carbohydrates will support your body’s ability to produce sex hormones and has helped many women stave off weight gain from birth control pills as well as natural hormonal fluctuations that occur during perimenopause. Try to eat organic foods or the highest quality food you are able to afford, and drink filtered water. Avoid packaged foods with known toxins. Toxins are everywhere, including in our food and water supply. Taking birth control pills places additional stress on your liver and other detoxification pathways. In my book The Wisdom of Menopause I lay out my Menopause Food Plan in detail.
- Exercise regularly. Get some form of cardiovascular exercise, as well as weight bearing and stress reduction exercises such as deep breathing.
- Plan for pleasure. Your body is hard wired for pleasure. Whether or not The Pill decreases your libido, it is still possible to enjoy sex. You just need to plan for it! Many people operate under the erroneous belief that sex is supposed to be spontaneous, and that there is something wrong with your sex life if you plan for it. Nothing could be farther from the truth! If you want to have a good sex life, you have to pay attention to it. What we pay attention to expands. That means making time for arousal and sex, even if it means jotting it in your Day Timer! (By the way, that includes making time for self-pleasuring, too!)
- Try herbs to wean off The Pill. When you feel ready to try something more natural, herbs can be a great way to transition and avoid withdrawal symptoms. I’m a huge fan of Pueraria mirifica and my Amata products have helped many women. There are also many other menopause herbs you can try. You can start taking herbs while you are still taking birth control pills, and then after a month stop taking The Pill. Your body may take a little time to even out, and you may need to adjust your herbs as you go. This is normal. Be patient and work with a knowledgeable herbalist or health care practitioner.
Remember, each of us is unique. What works for one woman won’t work for another. And that includes birth control pills. What is your experience?
I took Plan B in May of 2013. At that point, my weight was a stable 105, and had been for 10 years. I eat a clean, gluten-free, dairy-free diet and avoid sugar and processed foods. Within the month of taking Plan B, weight began to slowly crawl on. A few months later, I saw an endocrinologist for some tests. My SHBG was 250 – extremely elevated. It had never been elevated in my life. The weight kept creeping on, even as I tried to lower carbs and fruit, desperately. Today, I am 142 pounds, most of the added weight being on my hips, arms and thighs in the form of cellulite-laden fat. I can’t fit into any of my clothes. And my SHBG is STILL elevated at 210, over THREE YEARS after I took one Plan B pill. I’m 43. The only other time I took birth control pills was in my early 20s, for a brief period, and I stopped when they affected my mood. Between then and now, 20 years later, I have many documented blood tests without any elevated SHBG.
Please, ladies, be careful and avoid the birth control pill and Plan B, especially. You don’t know how your body will react. I am stuck in a toxic overload of synthetic estrogen.
I also experienced an enormous increase in my sex drive after stopping the pill. It was almost like magic. I feel happier and somehow I feel more myself. Probably it is simply that the pill was not for me. I stopped because I started having very heavy migrains with auras. If there is someone having migrains and on the pill, I sincerely advise them to consider checking out if they might not been caused by the pill.
I am thinking of going back on the pill with my new partner but I think I will lose sex drive. I want to go on for 3 – 4 months to see how I feel. With my last partner going off the pill and having my feelings come back was WHY I left a terrible relationship.
Yes, this is horrible. When is it going to end? I wish women were more assertive and worked harder on their education on the matters of being a woman. I’ve had so many friends’ friends who had their first baby, a C-section, for not particular reason. Women are being disempowered, for doctors tell them: “You can not know how to give birth. We studied a quarter of our lives, you have no other choice than listen to us..” They take all the power away this way, and women doubt their own inborn potential. (I can rant on and on on all the areas of the industry that are also associated with taking the power away from women!) The women were young, healthy, gorgeous. After the C-section their babies landed in Intensive Care, and the young mothers could not even walk normally from all the pain. So the first weeks of motherhood, that were supposed to be magical and inspiring, have turned out to be pure hell, and also spent in the hospital. And what for???
When i approach those women telling them how natural birth CAN be, they all do not believe it, for the memories of tortures endured are forever engraved into their minds and bodies. Their sex life is also gone. Their relationships suffer. Their immune system weakens tremendously (most suffer chronically from colds). Their pelvic muscles are in such a bad shape, that they get desperate. And the doctors??? The doctors tell them:” Learn to live with it…”
Elena Tonnetti has told me once: “What those doctors do, is in fact Mutilation of Women.”
And i agree…
Speaking of your Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom book. Few years ago, after discovering belly dance, my body suddenly REFUSED to be on anti-conception. Every time i would bring the pill to my mouth, my hand will literally push it away!!! I was terrified to quit… Doctors, books, you name it: all were telling me doom stories. To name a few: “You will get an AWFUL skin, you don’t want that, do yo?” “Your period will need AT LEAST a year to stabilize!” “You will get pregnant right away!” “If you get pregnant, your child will suffer from all the hormonal build up in your system.” “Natural birth-control is the worste!” And so on, and so forth…
Guess what? I got angry…. And: QUIT AT ONCE!
…. My period was immediately perfect 28 cycle. Always with the New Moon.
…. My skin became more glowing!
…. My sex life became wonderous!!! I suddenly was more inspired, so to speak.
…. I felt more feminine, more powerful, more connected to nature and my body thanked me in many many ways for my courage and bravery!
….. Men started reacted to me on the streets in this aweseom animalistic enchanted way! haha!
THANK YOU!!!!
I once recommended your book to a girl who was suffering from very painful ovulation. They told her to learn to live with it. I do not know the medical term for it, but the egg went not where it should.
I asked her whether she had problems with expressing her creativity. She said: “Yes.” (We are talking about a young, gorgeous young women of nearly 20 here!)
Recommended her your book.
And guess what??? She CURED after reading it!!! HA!!!
Her life improved, and improved, and improved!
Knowledge is Power, ladies!!!!
Educate yourself!!! 🙂
Sorry for this long message… But i hope this will inspire others.